Author: Bihar Say | Amrita | Simariya and Salempur: Where Marriages Are a Tradition, Not a Transaction Over 2,000 Dowry-Free Weddings, A Legacy Continued by the Youth While
While dowry remains a burden on many families in India, two villages in Bhagalpur, Simariya and Salempur, have set an inspiring example. Here, marriage is not a financial deal but a time-honored tradition. More than 2,000 weddings have happened without dowry, and the younger generation proudly continues this practice.
Simariya, part of Kajreli Panchayat, has around 10,000 people. Salempur, under Chandpur Panchayat, has a population of about 8,000. Though just 4 km apart, these villages share a strong bond. Nearly all marriages take place between families from these two villages, strengthening both familial and social ties.
At a time when lavish weddings with DJs, fireworks, and grand celebrations have become common, Simariya and Salempur follow a simpler approach. The groom’s family arrives at the bride’s home without unnecessary fanfare, and the wedding follows religious customs.
All weddings take place during the daytime to minimize expenses and maintain a peaceful atmosphere. Elders believe that daytime ceremonies help control costs and preserve financial stability.
Village representative Jahir Ahmad states that over 2,000 marriages have happened between these villages, all without dowry. Scholar Maulana Zahid Halimi emphasizes that this tradition has passed down for generations, and today’s youth follow it with pride.
Retired teacher Abdul Qayoom married in Salempur in 1976, and now his son has followed the same tradition. Two days before the wedding, families hold a special ‘Ring and Handkerchief Ceremony’. Around 40-50 people from the bride’s side visit the groom’s house. This ritual strengthens family bonds.
This practice not only empowers women but also spreads a message of positive societal change. While dowry remains a widespread issue, these villages in Bhagalpur are setting a progressive example.
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